Love in our lives.

It has been over a month and I haven't written anything. In my side of KL, there is no love. My quest to look for the love of my life is still going on. The Love of My Life ? Is that only a myth? I think it is a gift that only some of us have the pleasure of enjoying it.

Two of my friends have recently found love and it is such a delight to watch them slowly fall in love. I hate to turn bitter but in the current state I am in, I have to. It is such a shame that the first few precious months are often forgotten as the relationship grows. When things get rough, we often forget the good times. So, my advice for those of you who are about to board the Relation-Ship, when the sea gets rough- just remember of the good times. It may be able to help you.

The gap between like and attracted to

You can like someone. You can like many guys. You can click with a lot of men....but there's that x factor that gets you hook onto one specific guy. It's dubbed the X factor because honestly, it's just too difficult to explain,so we just call it the x factor.

I like a lot of guys but there are not many guys who I'm attracted to..and honey,there's a big difference. So, when is it do you know if you're attracted to a guy ?. For me, it's when the only thing I can think of is spending the whole day in bed with him, holding his hand,feeling the warmth of our bodies.That's when I know that the guy is the real deal.

What about you? When do you know you're attracted to a guy ? *Janine says it's when she can't look the guy in the face...cute, I thought. Think about it ladies (and gentleman)....

*names have been altered

Rape Me

This isn't a post about Mr. Cobain- I'm sorry for the harsh title but you'll understand where it's coming from soon.

What is it with Malaysian men these days? Aren't all men beasts when it comes to physical relationships? I ask this question as I have just had a heart to heart talk with a friend who is just dying to 'rape' her boyfriend of 5 months. They have only kissed twice in the space of 5 months and it is driving my friend nuts that he hasn't made a move.

We were laying out the possibilities that he could be gay, or cheating but there wasn't enough evidence to point him in either direction. So what was wrong with him? After 2 hours of much deliberation, we were back at one. The only solution was to 'rape' him.My advice to her was to just pounce on him. You gotta get what you want.

Honestly guys....when was it a problem for girls to be too sexual?